How do women visualize their dream partner? And how does this differ across women of different ages? At the University of Gottingen, a group of researchers examined the complex relationships between age and preferences for a partner in a large worldwide sample of single women. According to the study, there were little variations in most partner choices amongst the women of different ages. On the other hand, higher age was associated with a preference for confident and aggressive partners, as well as acceptance of a wider age range, and particularly a greater acceptance for a partner who is younger than oneself. Age was also associated with the ideal partner’s parenting intentions, which were consistently high until around the age of 28 and then became less important after that.
Carried out research
Researchers from the University of Gottingen, Indiana University, and Queen’s University Belfast worked with the female health app Clue to reach over 20,000 single women aged 18 to 67 years from nearly 150 countries through an online questionnaire, in order to find out if Love knows no age restrictions. The study covered, in addition to heterosexual women, two groups who are often neglected in psychological research: bisexual and lesbian women.
Respondents were asked to rank the importance of appearance, friendliness and supportiveness, financial security and success, as well as education and intelligence to them in their spouse. And also they were asked whether they would accept the youngest or oldest ages in a romantic partner. The impact of age on partner preferences was carefully investigated in all three groups using exacting methodologies.
Preferences for spouse
Regardless of age, most of the preferences for a partner include the need for a loving and supporting mate which was consistently relevant. Psychologists, particularly evolutionary psychologists, have explored adults’ choices for a dream spouse, especially sex differences in such desires. In comparison, the potential impact of age on partner preferences has gotten far less consideration. Nonetheless, the study found a relationship between a few particular preferences and age.
Biological clock
Research on the “biological clock” in both psychology and evolutionary theory would have predicted a later fall, namely between the ages of 40 and 50, when women near the end of their reproductive phase. This sudden earlier decline may be linked to younger women reassessing their goals for their families, whereas older women, who are already parents, prioritize other parts of their relationship. The trend differed by sexual orientation, which could indicate that the groups have distinct attitudes regarding their own children.
Age and other factors
Finally, Botzet writes, “Love turns out to be nuanced and not completely ageless.” The optimal ages of a spouse or a woman’s choice for a partner with higher parental ambitions are the other two factors that are considered with her age. These findings are interesting because they defy traditional notions about how age influences women’s imagination of their ideal partner.”
The current study reveals that age has little influence on several aspects of mate preferences for women. Nonetheless, age was linked with distinct choices. Evidence was found for a positive relation between age and other preferences for confidence-assertiveness, and also the link between age and intention for becoming a parent.
Furthermore, increasing age was connected with increased approval for younger partners, but constant levels of acceptance for older partners. This resulted in a broad age range regarded as acceptable as age climbed.
